美滿婚姻?

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娛樂圈最近又有藝人背着另一半偷歡偷食,最終宣布分手。小妹不禁想起另一位朋友C。

小妹同意蔡瀾先生所言,未結婚之前什麼都可以做,男女一樣。小妹並非鼓勵各位花心或濫交,但是男歡女愛,跟本就沒有天長地久的保證,尤其是男未婚、女未嫁,就更加應該在未結婚前揀清揀楚,免得將來後悔莫及 — 婚姻不是一種玩意,更不應兒戲。

朋友C最近與身邊另一位朋友發展了超友誼的關係,心是動了,卻示意女朋友拉埋天窗;這到底是逃避第三者的介入?害怕承認自己變了心?害怕面對自己是個負心漢?怕女朋友會因此離開自己?是責任?抑或是減少自己的罪惡感,以結婚去補救?

無論基於那個原因,小妹認為都不是出於愛。假如朋友C和女朋友真的愛得那麼深,根本容不下第三者;所以說穿了,朋友C最愛的都是自己,愛已變質,一切都是出於自私,而非當初的愛。

小妹認為朋友C這個決定是人生最大的錯誤之一,而且禍及另一半的下半生。可憐女朋友一心待嫁,以為覓得可附托終身的人,卻不知道男主角是為結婚而結婚。一段婚姻建基於第三者的介入,不知道可以維繫多久,小妹由衷之言,只能奉上一句「祝君好運」﹗

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現職傳媒及翻譯,因面對麵包和白開水問題,而經常徘徊於理想和現實取捨之間。 本來天生頗有慧根,聰明活潑,讀書成績名列前芧,以為萬千寵愛在一身,於是恃著自以為有的小聰明,橫行霸道,自以為是,無心向學,終自食其果,屬典型井底之蛙;長大後始知恨錯難返,於是化悲憤為文字,埋首寫作,希望為時未晚,將勤補拙,有朝一日修成正果。 現職傳媒及翻譯,因面對麵包和白開水問題,而經常徘徊於理想和現實取捨之間。 A Brief Introduction of the Author Born with sense and wisdom, the author was a cute and clever girl in her childhood. Her academic results were also always one of the best in the class. With everything she wants in her hands, she naively thought she was on the top of the world. Thus, she had become self-centred and narrow-minded before she had finally failed. She then realised her past was a total failure but instead of feeling sorry for herself, she has turned all the regrets into motivations to make it right again. She has started to experience the world, work hard on every aspect in life and enhance her knowledge and hopes it is not too late to make it up to what she has lost. Currently, she works in Media and Translation fields. But since she needs the bread and butter, she has always been struggling while pursuing her dreams.

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