摩梭族 – 世上唯一的女兒國

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瀘沽湖除了風景靚聞名外,還有一個十分吸引人的地方,便是當地的少數民族:摩梭族,它是世界上唯一一個還保留著母系社會制度的民族,即是傳統的走婚制度,男人喜歡上一個女人,便會在夜裏偷偷地走到女方家,就像偷情般,第二天便若無奇事回家。如果生了兒子,便會在女方照顧,所以這裏又稱為女兒國。

神祕吧﹗﹗就是這樣,很多人都以為他們都是很開放的,其實不是呀,慕名到一個名叫「扎西」的摩梭人宿舍,他很熱情地招呼我這名路過客進內聊天,談到有關摩梭人的生活,他便很不屑地道:「很多遊客來到便問是否可以走婚,當這裏是不三不四的地方,其實我們走婚,也很專一的,並不是今天一個,明天第二個。」

這位被喻為全里格村最英俊、最能幹和最有見識的男人(旅遊書上寫的),說的話果真與一般摩梭人不同。在我乘車來瀘沽湖途中,有位男司機,只不斷推銷摩梭文化,怎樣吸引,有什麼地方好玩,絕少這樣與你探討他們內心深處的想法。所以各位來到瀘沽湖,不妨再坐多半小時車往里格村,去探探這位聞名已久的里格村長,他必定不會讓你失望,還可住在他那裏呢,不過,他那裏很多遊客慕名到,房間經常爆滿。但叮囑想在這裏有艷遇的男士們,「搵食都係行遠啲」,不要沾污這裏的純潔。

里格村最英俊、最有見識的村長,很有幸跟他合照呢~~~~~
里格村最英俊、最有見識的村長,很有幸跟他合照呢~~~~~
摩梭族是世界上唯一還保存母系社會特點的少數民族。
摩梭族是世界上唯一還保存母系社會特點的少數民族。

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Chee

My name is Chee. Add a "r" after the word, then it would become Cheer. This name is called by my friend in university and I like it very much. Why do I love this name? Easy. I always think cheer is important because life is limited and we should make every possible way to enjoy, play, and make ourselves happy. But, saying is easier than doing. Whenever you want to do one thing, something would happen and it will disturb what you are doing right now. You'll never guess what the thing would be. Especially a few people gather together, you'll never guess what they're thinking. More the people there are, more the mess it would be. I've learned the above lesson very very early, and I try not to mind what other's people thinking, but it's really really difficult. Today, I failed again. My friend made me unhappy. But I know I'll recover and back to my life again tomorrow after I had a good sleep. Maybe this is the way of escape since the problems haven't solved yet, but I believe there will be ways to solve the problems and you'll never believe that ways are not so complicated as you think. So cheer cheer cheer up, and life would become easy and happy. 「講左咁耐,都唔知大家明唔明講乜,不過唔明都唔緊要啦,做人難得糊塗嘛,又何必太在意我呢個傻婆講既野。」

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